Finding yourself in the middle of a life changing situation can be humbling and dangerous. Pointing the finger at someone else and claiming they are the problem is easy to do when you can't look in the mirror and see your own insecurities. Your identity changes as you grow from your problems. Running from them only exasperates the circumstances. Why try you may die in the end. Like the snake shedding its constricting skin, death can be the most beautiful beginning.