0Rudyard Kipling in his poem "IF" presented a number of scenarios in which 'his son" could become "a man". "If you can keep your head when all about you Are losing theirs and blaming it on you: ..." In "The Other Side of the Fire" Dr. Jan Adams does just that. The book presents nine steps to be mastered that assures the recipient will be prepared to handle adversity and even thrive in its mist.