f The South, I tend to mix business with pleasure and joy with pain. I also tend to carry on the great Southern tradition of dragging your childhood with you wherever you go, and when you get to where you are going, your family is not far behind. Oxford taught me to embrace who I am and so this is a book without sensor. It is also full of love, forgiveness, and redemption. Please help yourself to a portion of my brothers, sisters, and sinner friends.