very well be the saving grace for the person who pulls the thread -- and keeps pulling. Earth-shattering revelations by family members about family members are always hard to take. Rumors destroy lives, whether they were started today or a hundred years ago. They are cruel, and some must be researched before the truth is found out. Sometimes, you need to take a stand against family members and dig deeper into the rumors to right the wrongs of history. It only takes one person to stand up and ask more questions. The truth will always find a way to the surface.