How I Became The Love of My Life, is a memoir of one queer woman's self-excavation and voyage into a new life. After her world implodes the night her wife admits to cheating, Labris begins to trust her gut again. She finds the strength to leave her marriage and sets out to walk the Camino de Santiago in Northern Spain. Saying, "Yes!" to the Universe leads her on journeys through fear and rejection to adventure, sexual escapades and an evolving sense of joy and victory.