A Non-Judgmental Way of Thinking and Talking- for Men, Partners, and Therapists

with a Foreword by Tristan Taormino and an Afterword by Chanel Preston

"There's a lot of screaming, yelling, and smut-shaming out there about porn. David Ley's reasonable, calm, informed writing should be read by anyone interested in porn-and it should be required reading for anyone tempted to legislate about it."-Dan Savage

"An important book for men of all ages, written by an expert in men's (and couples') sexualities."-Debby Herbenick, Ph.D. President-Elect of AASECT

Our media are filled with cautionary, polarizing messages about the dangers of porn, even while sexually explicit images are exploited deliberately and persuasively in ads and entertainment. With a casual style and topical format, this accessible, funny, and evidence-based book offers anyone feeling shame and anxiety about their own or their partner's behavior a nonjudgmental way to view and use pornography responsibly.