6Often times the burden we carry as women derives from the erroneous decision taken when choosing our lifetime partners. The connection we make with these men leads us to believing that we have found our "perfect-match" or soul-mate! Then without hesitation, we disregard contemplating or the urge to seek guidance through giving ourselves time to know what the "perfect-match" is all about nor who he really is. "Bear in mind that not every women has put proper thought and deliberation prior to sealing God's union and covenant which is meant to never be broken."Yet, You Married Him looks into twenty two characters of men that as women we have either crossed paths with or currently married to or perhaps contemplating spending the rest of our lives with.It's a book in which Phindile Yende describes these characters of men in how they were socialized, their backgrounds, their views on life, their current mental, social and economic stance which eventually leads them to their current behavioural patterns which play an integral part in how their marriage or relationship will pan out. However the women always being aware of the signs..... yet, marrying them.