7Have you tried Positive Discipline, but it didn't work with your child? Or maybe it worked for while, but not anymore? All too often the mainstream parenting advice fails to take kids' personality and temperament into account, leaving us with a one-size-fits-all approach - or it focuses mainly on stopping the problem behavior, which isn't enough when your kid is strong-willed, oppositional, or defiant. In Your Rules Are Dumb Rebecah Freeling, a 20-year child behavior expert specializing in kids at the far end of the difficult-behavior spectrum, outlines a practical and concrete behavior management approach that's specifically designed for "spirited," strong-willed kids - and it's also designed to go the distance, so you don't have to continually reinvent your parenting strategy. You also get a link to a free temperament assessment, which helps you tailor your communication to fit your child's temperament!