1The most important thing you should know as you read this book is that you can and should talk to your loved ones in the spirit world. They do not quit being your loved ones just because they experience the death of the physical body. They experience the pain of separation just as you do. I offer proof of communication with those currently residing in the spirit world as to how they really feel and what they experience. Connecting with loved ones in spirit is not a passive event! You do not need to wait for a hummingbird or butterfly to come near you to believe your loved one in spirit is present. This book teaches you, step by step to build a beautiful, functioning relationship with your loved ones in spirit. Continuing to send love and including them in your life is important for their adjustment on the other side. It is important for your loved one to know that you still love them and care about them. It is important for them to know they are not forgotten. I can prove to you that there is a spirit world and your loved one still exists. I can also prove to you that they can communicate easily to you if you invite them. Your loved one is still nearby anytime you call on them. They love it when you invite them to continue your relationship. I connect with the spirit world as part of my mediumship practice. I bring people messages and do mediumship readings. This book is written by someone who has experienced the early death of two siblings, a mother, x-husband and the murder of her own daughter. It is written by somebody who knows the soul shattering pain of loss. There is an alternative to the misery of grief and this is it. When my daughter Nicole died I received so many undeniable signs that I knew she was trying to get through to me. My mission now is to share what I have learned. I am writing this book about my journey so you will understand how to connect with your loved one in spirit. I have been given the information from spirit that this book is not to be about the pain I have endured. This book is about my journey of connection with spirit to show others the options that are available. You have more abilities than you know. This book will show you how you can connect. The person who lost their physical body still exists. They are still present. They are in your life. They are watching you. They can communicate most strongly with your permission and encouragement. I want you to understand how much they need you. They want to continue your relationship. I have never channeled a spirit that said, "Oh, I have moved on". I have never channeled a spirit that said, "I got on with things. I am not feeling the need to talk anymore." When I do mediumship these spirits are extremely happy to communicate once again. I can feel their excitement during every reading I do. This book is provides a roadmap to understanding the afterlife in a whole new way. This book provides the tools for you to understand how to develop the best relationship you can with those you love in spirit. This book will shine a light on your path by taking you along my own journey into spirit communication through a variety of methods and experiences. You will learn about signs from spirit, understanding mediumship, calling spirit, pendulums, seances, mediumship development training, development circles, platform mediumship and more. Most importantly you will understand and be provided with proof that spirit communication is part of our inherent nature and that all human beings can and should communicate with their loved ones in spirit.