Because of the difficult places in which we find ourselves, we sometimes become ashamed, embarrassed or too frightened to talk about the problem. We tend to withdraw or put on the Sunday face and act as if we are fine. I call this "the closet experience." Out of this experience this book is written to help anyone to realize that it is not good to keep those things pondering in your heart, but to seek help. Life has become so difficult. We all face problems, but seldom are we taught to solve them-to speak of relationships that take us to another level. It is difficult enough to have to suffer through rough times, but to have to line in what I call "a closet experience" in isolation can be traumatic even to the strongest person.

However, though no one wants to admit that they have a problem, I will quote the words of my pastor years ago: "The only way you don't have a problem in a relationship, you must be blind, deaf, or speechless." I concur! Prayerfully, after reading this book, you will see how you can survive through relationship experiences and help you to know that you are not alone.