4She was a stunningly beautiful woman whose life had been ravaged by the struggle to discern a suitable mate for life. Torn between the values learned from her parents on love and marriage, challenged by the potential love interests available in a multiracial society, but cautioned to men who desire her for their own cunning intents; her pursuit becomes a search for a needle in a haystack. How does she locate the one special individual among a society of equally alluring and quality people? Still, how does she discover a love interest without choosing the thorns among the roses? After a life-long search, her experience produces reliable methods for choosing wisely.

But her story is just a parody of the struggles awaiting men and women growing and living in a multicultural society. The 21^st century springs forth new societal demands that clashes with traditional methods on love and marriage. When two people intersect on the road of life and mutually observe their eyes meeting, hearts yearning, and values aligning, and both believe that absolutely no one else will do; then they have discovered their mate. And when both discover their love design in each other, it does not take long to make the marriage decision. Then, and only then, will they both conclude; "You are the one person I want to Dance with Me through life!"