This is a record of my journey into discovering identity. There were so many influences demanding my focus which were not based in truth or what was best for me. This has been a process of weeding through the lies I had heard from others, lies I had repented from others, and lies I had told myself. I was so convinced that I was substandard and a huge disappointment to God. God has revealed the truth to me through counseling, scripture, and listening to Him concerning who I really am. How God sees me is the truth. His opinion of me is the only one that matters. I have attempted in this book to share some of the ways that these truths have been revealed to me. And I want to show how others can access the same revelation about themselves that I found. It is an incredible journey and it's never too late