9Small talk is an inevitability of life. Millions of business deals have been signed, millions of friendships have been formed, and millions of relationships have been turned to romance, all because of small talk. In essence, become proficient in small talk or get left behind socially and professionally. If you're not good at small talk, it may seem like an amorphous puzzle that you can't quite figure out. It's especially frustrating when some people make it seem so easy. Small talk can be easy for you too. Once you learn and practice the techniques of the highly successful conversationalists, you'll be able to upgrade your conversations (and your life) to the next level.