The purpose of this book is first and foremost to let women know that their voice and insight matter. Secondly, it is to strengthen marriages and bring awareness of the issue of transference in the church. If you are wondering what transference is and why pastors, in particular, are extremely susceptible then you simply must read this book. Strong marriages build a legacy for generations to come. Lastly, by sharing with you a painful and difficult chapter in her life and how she got to the other side perhaps others might be inspired to press on through a difficult season of their own. The theme for this book then would be hope. Hope is needed now in our world more than ever. There is nothing more powerful to move us forward into the abundant life that Jesus promised.