He cheated on you. Maybe you found out via an errant text message. Maybe you got a phone call from his recently dumped OW. Maybe that nagging fear finally coaxed you to check his e-mails or his texts and - whoa - guess what you found.

And in your state of shock is one looming question: Now what?

Do you stay or go? Who do you tell? Is your marriage salvageable? Will you ever get over this?

There was no playbook for betrayed wives when it happened to me. And so I wrote Encyclopedia for the Betrayed, an easy-to-read A to Z guide to surviving infidelity, a roadmap to betrayal that offers everything you need to know from someone who's been there. I can't promise that your marriage will survive but I can promise that you will. Encyclopedia for the Betrayed shows you how.