2No need to beat your head on the concrete - we are all destined to take some type of journey that is designed by GOD. Our designed journey that is planned for us has no prejudice, but a test of will. Eliminate the doubt that you have on your life because life challenges are inevitable. We are all designed to face obstacles throughout our life and stress when things don't go as we would like. Have the will power and faith to overcome disappointment. Don't blame our past or not so great upbringing to keep us from being successful in life.