Instructions for Chinese Girls and Women is an easy, enjoyable read. It contains passages preaching subservience that will make the modern reader cringe and/or laugh, but there is interesting nuance there for readers with an open mind.
The husband commands, the wife obeys;
Yet let there be mutual grace and love;
There are timeworn, universal complaints:
The present generation's children are very bad;
They have learned nothing.
And there are humorous warnings against immoral immodesty:
Imitate not those rude women who with confusion eat, drink, and talk;
Drinking wine until crazy, they shamefully vomit their food;
In this state going home, before reaching their house, many shameful, rude acts will they do.
This Camphor Press edition has illustrations and a new introduction from Susan Blumberg-Kason, author of the memoir Good Chinese Wife.