hing to think about, but one you have an obligation to do. Don't Let the Stuff You Leave Behind Destroy Your Family creates a plan so that everything you've worked to achieve over your lifetime doesn't become the ruin of your family. This plan is about fairness and love, ensuring that each child receives equal value from the things you leave behind. Instead of tearing your family apart, this book will help you create a plan that lets your children and grandchildren understand the love you have for them, because parents never outlive their obligation to their children.