Susan Lebel Young is a retired psychotherapist, a teacher of stress reduction, yoga, and meditation. She's a pretty savvy person. When her first grandkids were born, Young dreamed about what a great grandparent she would be. She would teach them how to be kind, considerate, and patient. Her plan didn't work. She wasn't forever patient. More startling, Young found that the grandkids taught her much more than she was able to teach them.