Inside, you'll find a radically different approach to parenting, where we stop asking so many questions about how to get children to behave and examine our behaviors, expectations, and values as parents.

Embracing the idea that our children deserve our honesty, vulnerability, and leadership, you'll discover a powerful framework for raising your family with integrity and confidence.

Giving and receiving the trust, communication, cooperation, respect, and joy that every parent and child deserves, ultimately allows our children to become the leaders our future so desperately needs.

A groundbreaking examination of parenting, written by the founder of the world's leading parent coaching institute, this book will take you on an inner journey of self-inquiry, exploration, and curiosity, helping you answer the question that is only answerable by YOU:

"How can I be the best version of myself in the name of raising my child?"

You'll be moved by stories of hope and inspired by powerful shifts in families from all over the world.

"Nothing is more important than preserving the self-esteem and confidence of children. And parents are the best hope to do so. This is such important work."

Jack Canfield,

Author of Chicken Soup for the Soul

Kiva Schuler is the founder of The Jai Institute for Parenting, which has been training parenting coaches globally since 2011, and, most importantly... Mom to Myles and Charlotte, who inspired her journey toward her life's work:

To change the world by changing how parents parent.