In love, there is no such thing as one-size-fits-all. Working in the medical field for more than twenty years, Melissa Roberts has learned that some of life's biggest stressors--marriage, relationships, and family--could be transformed into some of life's biggest happiness-makers. All we need is to look at things with a more open mind.

In Because of You: Chasing Oklahoma, Roberts suggests that love can be shared. It is possible to be deeply in love with more than one person. With a strong foundation of marriage and family, nontraditional additional relationships are possible.

It takes a village to raise a family, Roberts explains. We struggle way too often with the small stuff in life. But we don't have to. Love should be how we choose to define it and what works for us individually.