She changed her mind one day and decided she will not become a victim of dysfunctionality. She learned from her experiences and from other people on how to become independent and live a happy life. Brenda was on an uncharted road and asked God to walk with her along the way and guide her. She worshipped Him, and He walked with her every step she made, even ones she had to correct, but she did and that's because she was on the uncharted road. Brenda is living a proud, happy, and healthy life in New Orleans with a part of her family. The other part lives in Childersburg, Alabama, where she still visits a few times a year.