on to my son, Jeremiah, whose gift of motherhood has been a profound lesson in survival, joy, and inspiration. To my loving husband, my best friend, who has illuminated the essence of genuine love. To my father and mother, the golden pillars whose sacred presence helped shape this book, their spirits touching my heart with unconditional love since my arrival in this universe. To my aunt Blanche and uncle Manny, providers of love, support, life lessons, and delightful recipes, offering a New Yorker's perspective with humor and common sense. Lastly, to all individuals, both loving and challenging, who have crossed my path - whether traveling with me or lost along the journey - each teaching valuable lessons. We are all magically dispersed in this universe, connected by THE Invisible WEB OF IMPERFECT TRANSFORMATIONS, weaving joy and pain into our lives.