n who grew up in an atmosphere of chaos and trauma. At midlife, she was able to identify who the real enemy was and removed herself from her family of origin. For years, she had been programmed to believe as they did that alcohol was great and not to ever trust anyone who did not drink. As an adult, she rejected this lie when it became clear to her that alcohol was the enemy and the reason for all the horrors she and her siblings were expected to endure without complaint. Once the identity of the enemy was clear that it was the alcohol, she was able to put the past behind and move forward to a life of self-fulfillment, peace, and contentment. It is a story for anyone who feels trapped in a situation of fear and despair. This is a story with an unbelievable happy ending.